People don’t really think about the long term consequence of their actions. After all if they do, people immediately stop using away non-renewable energy sources, cut out all activities that impact the plant, stop voting, stop having sex and the list of human’s idiocy goes on. But on a serious note, it is about time people should start looking into the long term corollary of human activities – mainly having kids. Most people think that raising kids is not quantum physics but simple biology. But, in the modernized world, rearing a human child is more than biology. It is requires a combination of great attributes like patience and several skills and large knowledge on the subject. Even after all the classes and late night internet browsing, people are not really ready for kids. Most of the people have kids because the society expects it. But it is about time, people should stop that kind of non-sense. The child you create is part of the future and they might even grow up to be an influence on the other people. Therefore, here are few tips to ensure that you don’t end up creating a person who might have flawed ideologies.
Look into the people your child interacts with
We live in a world where we have a silent agreement with people mainly our neighbors to not to be friendly or inquisitive about their life. However, children’s are curious and they wouldn’t understand these pacts. Therefore, if you see your kid interact with someone, then make it a point to talk to them and make sure that they are not pedophiles. The world is actually a dangerous place. You should also check all available details about the child care services you are planning to use for kids. You should also make it a point to get reviews from other parents who had used the same service.
Have creative play dates
When you were kid, it is much obvious that you would have had a patch against your eye and pretended to a pirate with your friend. Research shows that the kids who pretend played has an increased the brain power and the creative and brain activity. You can encourage your kid and their friends to get engaged in nature play and even board games instead of video games or other similar things on electronics.Apart from the above mentioned ideas, it is important to live a life where you show your kids what is right and what is wrong instead of shouting to them about it. You need to live as a role model to your child instead of expecting them to live up to your unreasonable standards; this is considered as a kind of negligence or abuse. However, if you are faced with a dilemma or uncertainty ask for help from your family and friends with kids.